No matter how much you are told, don’t fight, let go, forgive, and don’t see that it is difficult to do those things once.TAKE THIS INTO YOUR MIND
But do you know why they say that to you? Consider this well.
Someone close to you, someone you helped, even if that person forgets you and leaves you, even if you behave as if you have done nothing for them, even if they forget all the things you have done and insult you, their conscience knows very well that they are wrong to do so. They know what you did for them…
No matter how much you say no, they remember whether everything they do is right or wrong for a single moment. Try replacing yourself. If you do a little fraud to someone who loves you a lot or trusts you a lot, you remember it time and time again, don’t you? You will regret, “Why am I doing this to him?”It’s like that. We are all human. No matter how much we try to forget, sometimes we remember good or bad.
The only way to make up your mind is to see them well. Be happy if they have improved and are now in a good place with your help. If they make up their mind with your words and lives happily, be happy. If they got a good partner through you and are now living a beautiful life, congratulate them from the bottom of your heart.
After hearing from you, if they are living a successful family life with their children and partners, please bless them from the heart that they should be better.
The more you do, the better you get. They will get what they want for their mistakes. But don’t ever think for a second that “he is like this because of me; don’t feel bad for what he did to me”, because it will make you worse. Why do you lose your good because of someone useless?
No matter how many heartaches, problems, and downfalls you have had, you are here today because of your good deeds. Maybe the only good thing that happened to you is what you did to that person who left you. Then you got to be like this today because of them, right? So thank them.
Today you are reading this and it is because of them that you will take something from it. So don’t hate anyone who hurt you. Be thankful. Then you will get unimaginable comfort and happiness will come…