There is a strong criticism of the story “We all need a comfortable person who can share everything in life”. That is, the comfortable people around us use the same things we shared against us when they distanced themselves from us for some reason. Simply put, by reading them around, they damage our privacy and character.
So is it wrong for us to be comfortable with our loved ones?
It might be our weakness to want to share everything with the closest ones. But have you ever thought about what will happen to us if we keep sadness, a fear, a problem that we feel in our heart and do not share it with anyone for the fear that one day it will be used against us? How severe the results of not having someone to tell the pains of the heart can be?
So is it really wrong to trust those closest to us? Or do the close ones we trust break our trust?
In this life we live, due to some reasons, due to someone’s fault, we can break our relationships with our closest ones. Friendships can be severely damaged. It is an experience that we all face often.
But no matter where it is, no matter how dire the situation, if we feel like sharing the extremely personal information of people who have shared our lives with us for a while and share it with others if we feel like using it against them, then that is a big problem. It is a very bad thing that the things that people share within a comfortable zone are later shared with unrelated parties.
So, listen to a person with a story to tell. Give a shoulder to a person who feels like crying. Every human being is sensitive like that and opens up only to their most trusted people. If we lose that support or any comfortable people, it will be tough for us in this life.
But, even after a bad breakup, learn to protect the privacy of those people. Don’t destroy the character. That is the biggest thing we can do for the people who believed in us for a long time.
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