As the name suggests, this is about bad relationships.
If any situation like this in the relationship is at an extreme level, it can be harmful. That means that these characteristics are always highlighted in the relationship more than the normal level.
- Even if you talk to someone else, your partner gets angry. Jealous. It is forbidden to go on a trip at least with one’s own family. In short, don’t like to spend time on anything without him. You don’t have personal space or time.
- They want to check where you are and who you are with. “Make a video call and show them. Send a photo with the people there.” It’s just not okay if you say, “I’m doing this to take care of you.” They also say if doubt is always present among you, it is not a very good sign.
- Your partner is verbally aggressive or physically threatening. That means nothing can be solved by talking. It ends in a fight. There is no such thing as open communication between you two. So this is why you lie about some things. Hiding
- Your spouse is letting you down. No appreciation. They take credit for all the good things and only point the finger at you when you make mistakes. Body shaming. “Look he/her is like this. You can’t stay like that”. So you feel bad about yourself. Your self-confidence is lost.
- They force and threaten you to do what you don’t want and do what you don’t want. You want to be an air hostess but you are not allowed to do it. “If you want a job, come home at 2 pm and do teaching”. Sometimes you have to do something completely different from your dream.
- Your partner has complete control over you. From the clothes you wear, you have to take every small decision with his/her permission. Your independence will be lost.
- In an unhealthy relationship, you feel that this is not going to work for you, but you persevere thinking that “it will get better someday. The relationship will work out.” Being dependent on him/her for everything and being controlled, you are afraid of being alone. It feels unsafe.
An unhealthy relationship can be harmful in many ways.
“Staying in an unhealthy relationship that robs you of peace of mind: is not being loyal. It is choosing to hurt yourself mentally, emotionally and sometimes, physically.” – Kemi Sogunle-
Men/women need a relationship to make their life easier, not to become a burden.
Don’t enjoy life stuck in bad relationships.