Childless married couples have become an unfortunate situation that is commonly seen in today’s society. In some cases, due to this situation, even marriage relationships are seen to be broken and other people can be seen suffering from severe mental pain.
The society we live in is surrounded by many bonds. People are always very interested in other people’s lives.
It is said in the story that the speck in other people’s eyes is bigger than the speck in their own eyes.
In some countries, when a girl child is in a family, whether or not she is married is the biggest problem for the people around her.
Let’s say the girl is married, the next day after she is married, she will ask if she is going to have a baby, and if she does have a baby, she will ask if the milk in the baby’s mouth is healthy before it is time to have another baby.
So people had to live like this in the midst of a group of people who are amazingly interested in other people’s things, like a tongue between thirty teeth.
No one who questions in this way is a sensitive person.
How much mental pressure does it give to a married couple to ask about the emotional issues of life, such as why they are not having a baby, without knowing what problems they have?
If people ask a couple who has been married for years if they don’t have a baby yet, it can be painful if they are not a couple who want to delay having a child.
Even though problems of both sexes are the reasons for not having children, in the past, women have been blamed for it.
Therefore, the woman is the one who suffers the most mental violence here.
The reason for that is that some women may suffer constant psychological abuse from their husbands, even from in-laws and uncles when others constantly highlight the issue of not having children.
Even society is not kind to a childless woman.
The ancient villagers did not even want to go on a journey with their faces smeared with the label of a barren woman.
We should not forget that although society is not as narrow-minded as in the past, there are still people in society who are immersed in those attitudes.
In this way, women may become stressed by being accused of a problem that they cannot control, even though they are suffering from mental stress. It can make their lives in chaos.
All of you are people who have suffered or are already suffering from some kind of mental distress at some point in life. Sometimes it is the helpless people who made sudden decisions in those situations and trapped their lives in chaos because of those decisions. So, find someone to listen to you to get relief from your mental problems without making sudden decisions.