Don’t go explaining everything to everyone, Sometimes you have to explain reasons to people you are used to
The reason why you are making such a fuss about sales?
Why did you decide not to go to campus?
Why are you trying to go to campus anyway?
The reason you find a job quickly❓
Why do you want to learn more?
The reason you start or end a relationship?
Why are you getting married soon?
Why did you decide to stay single?
Why do you decide to have a wedding or not?
Why don’t you go to a pregnant soon or not to have children?
The reason for your lifestyle?
Why are you leaving the country or not?
From things like this that you do on a daily basis to the most personal matters of your life, ‘Why do you do that?’ You must always try to explain the reasons and justify your personal decisions.
The reason for that is that society often judges you. Because of that judging, you “What do you think of me?” There is fear.
And “Why did you do that?” When you are constantly questioned, you feel uncertain and doubtful about yourself.
So, explain the reasons you feel because of the fear caused by this judge and the uncertainty and doubt caused by the questioning.
Because of this, you may be trying to make your life normal for the outside parties to correct their misunderstandings about you.
But you know? There is no such thing.
Because your life belongs to you. You don’t need to be bound to answer in other people’s private courts, as long as what you say honestly does not offend anyone.
If you look closely, people who are asking you for four or four reasons are often people who have nothing to do with your life. Such people have problems that your family, your parents, siblings, your spouse, children, and even those who are directly related to the situation do not have. Also, such people look for reasons in the lives of others while keeping a thousand gaps in their own lives.
Don’t try hard, waste time and energy to explain things to such people. The day you stop explaining to such people, you will feel very free and independent.
Do not underestimate your values in front of other people’s questions.
The other important thing is that no matter how many reasons some people try to explain, they only understand these things with their own wisdom.
Choose people who stand by your side unconditionally instead of people who stand by you.
Stopping explaining the reasons and keeping people away from asking the reasons is really a relief to the mind.