What is the point of talking and writing about self-love?
This will write from experiences with the changes in life before and after the self-love practice.
- Before, didn’t really know what self-love was. Used to think that loving yourself was selfish and loving everyone but you was altruistic.
- But realized that can’t really love someone else without loving yourself. Now I realize that I can love others very easily without realizing it. I think that things that I don’t want others to do to me are less likely to happen to others now.
- So try to understand people a lot. Stopped questioning them because there are reasons in their lives that you don’t know. Feel that people are more comfortable with you than before. That you believe you. That alone makes you love yourself more.
- Try to be very sad about mistakes. They didn’t even want to be reminded of it. But do you believe what is said now; Get your life from those things. When you look back, instead of sighing for those past days, a small smile appears on your face. It’s like you used to forgive people instead of getting angry.
- Try to please everyone. They tried to force you to change by saying that you would make sacrifices. But now you accept yourself completely. Now you are trying to create yourself from there to the place you see as your destination. You’re not ready to create images or impress anyone.
- Now you make every decision for your own good as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone. There you focus on your inner peace and mental freedom. You work to have no regrets because you know that you are 100% responsible for the decisions you make. Therefore, your personal life is improving more than before. You do your best within the limits that are not difficult for anyone other than you.
- Get rid of the mind that thought, “Oh, they think about me this way, they say this to me.” You have now set boundaries for yourself. You have the courage to say no, to flatly refuse. Tried to stir, but now won’t stir. Rather than being in conflict with people, you are now making a policy for yourself and standing up for it. Also, respect the principles of others.
- Love your life with all your heart so you don’t want to be like others. You are more at ease, satisfied and happy with your life than before. Because you found all of them yourself, now no one can take those things away from you.
- The most important thing is that you see life optimistically. Because you know that only you can give real value to yourself, you are watching the attempts of those who try to break you and bring you down as a mould shot and disappear. That’s why they keep their mind pure by only taking what is necessary even from human company. You give the best that you can give to the society.
- Self-love teaches you about honest love. As you changed for the better, you started receiving better things. You try to share that love and good things with others.
Believe it or not, from the day you started loving yourself, the universe started giving you great love. Actually, your whole world is dear now.