Practicing Self Love is better than saying that Self Love will happen. Because it doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a process. Just think about it. It is a feeling that develops step by step. That theory is the same when you fall in love with yourself. You can’t force love by saying, ‘Ah, I will love you from today.’ In our words, it is a feeling that comes from the bay itself. I call it a quality to be mastered.
In order to have love, there must be an attachment. We approach another person only if we are interested in them. If you want to be attracted to yourself, you must first be curious about yourself. Instead of looking for others, you should be interested in looking for yourself.
Here are 4 small questions for that.
- Who are you?
- What do you want?
- What can you do?
- What do you need to do to get what you want?
how to start loving yourself
Call this the formula of life. You can do a SWOT (Strengths, Weakness, Opportunities, and Threats) analysis to find the answers to these 4 questions. From there you can understand your capacity. Then, in solving the riddle of this life, there are hidden answers to fill the gap between where you are now and where you want to go someday. Curiosity can help you identify yourself
Next, accept the image created about you in those answers. Do not deceive yourself by impressing the society here. You can’t practice this without being honest with yourself. See your good and bad. You should try to practice those good things more and minimize the effects of bad things.
Now you have to change the habit of comparing yourself with others. Don’t get stuck in someone else’s timeline. If you ask two people the above questions, you will get two kinds of answers. So don’t be like others saying, “If he is like that, I want to be like this.”
We need to get independent from the inside by getting rid of the slave mentality that lives in fear of stories like “Oh, they will be angry” and “They will say that I have changed”. You cannot force things to change unless you are ready to change.
Self Love is funny if you still hate the past. Forgive all. Acquit the conscience. So you only need to take from the past and move from there. Look, when you start practicing Self Love, you start to love even the past that you don’t want to remember now.
All this happens because of only one thought. That thought will not be deposited in your mind because of anxiety. In general, believe that when a person matures with time and experience, they realize who they are. Therefore, it is not practical to practice Self Love until you are ready to wake up from the dream world and open your eyes to life.
So stop, wake up, and think wisely.
You will meet yourself.
Let’s start loving ourselves from there.